Monday, December 8, 2014

Embracing Hardship: Becoming a Pillsbury Doughboy?!

While navigating my way through the Twitter, I’ve discovered a trend that sparked some interest in me. #Lifewouldbebetterif. As you can probably tell (you fabulous reader, you), this is a hashtag phrase. For those still scratching their heads over what a hashtag is and claiming “back in my day we used to call those a pound sign,” well…yes. It’s a pound sign. However, what makes it a hashtag is if you include it in a post you make, it will link you and everyone else who uses it to a common page. For example:


#Exposed Hoes

So, I got to thinking, what would make life better? My initial post was this:





Then, I thought surely I could come up with something far more interesting and insightful than that.  Well, I’ll have to get back to you on that one, because I’ve got nuthin'.

What I really want to talk about is what gives us gas. Not the Taco Bell kind, but the kind that gets us up in the morning. (Though, if Taco Bell gives you gas powerful enough to launch you out of bed, life would be better if you went and saw a doctor. Immediately.)

For me, what gives me gas is in knowing that I am a lead guitarist of an awesome band. I can play guitar pretty damn well and I have a creative spark going that’s pushing me to write new songs. However, I’ve spent a lot of time and energy to get to this point. What I see on Twitter runs counter to this. People want something immediately. Instant gratification. A ton of tweets mention wanting something immediately without any hassle. 


Sorry, I meant Hasselhoff.

I believe that what makes life meaningful is working towards something. More specifically, working to achieve a dream. After all, don’t you get that feeling of accomplishment when you’ve finished a task? Be it a chore, homework, a project at work, your resume, your dog’s resume. Even if all you did was trim your nose hair, it still leaves one with a feeling of satisfaction. Now, imagine this on a grander scale. You’ve always wanted to be the Pillsbury Doughboy. You spend years undergoing countless plastic surgeries and bleaching. You dedicate several hours each and every day to perfecting the accent. You develop an obsession with dough. Finally, after a good 5 years or so, your dream is realized.


“Hoo-hoo!”

And you feel like a champion. And that is because you are. In my eyes, anyone who achieves their dream through hard work and sacrifice is a champ.

On the other hand, you could blow on a genie’s lamp (innuendo intended) and wish to transform right then and there. Even though you’ve bypassed the hard work and sacrifice, and in turn have more time to spend as the Pillsbury Doughboy, what does it all mean? You got what you wanted without putting in any effort (other than with your mouth). Do you know what that makes you?


Spoiled.

And this brings me to my point. Life is hard and difficult. And it really can be a bitch to the majority of us who aren’t the minority of the rich and powerful (though, even they have their share of problems). But, what I truly believe in is that life is this way not to put us down, but to help us grow. Just like working out with resistance pumps up your muscles, life’s resistance helps pump your character.


Character.

People want life without the hardship. I say, what is life without the hardship? It is only one word --- meaningless. If everyone got what they wanted immediately, a lot of people would be rich and lazy, and a lot of people would be dead. It would not be a world I want to live in.  If I lived in a world like that, I would be saying “life would be better if we had hardship.”

Luckily, that is not our world. We live in a much more dynamic place. A place that lets us prove ourselves. You have the opportunity to develop your talent and grow as a person. You have the chance to overcome life and become a champion. Hell, we’re even living in a time of unrivaled wealth and information. Food is on every corner. Access to movies and games and cat gifs is only a click away. The world’s knowledge is at our finger tips.


I had to throw in something musically related.

I guess, in the end, life would be better if more people realized how good we have it.

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